Ok ladies, how many of you that are crossdressers go out? By out I mean that you crossdress, at least a bit, in public. Maybe you dress all up and go out to the nightclub, or perhaps just the local pub? Maybe you dress up and go out shopping. Maybe you like to dress up when you go food shopping!
If you do, I think that’s great. You have the balls, so to speak, to go out there the way you want to and damn what anyone thinks. So, do you think that all crossdressers should? Do you think that it should be the goal of every crossdresser to work your way up to going out in public crossdressed, or to try to pass as a girl?
I’ve noticed that there seems to be a lot of crosdressers that try to push, maybe a little too much, other crossdressers to go out in public. Some seem to forget that transgenders are a very big mix of different types of people, all with their own ideas of what they want to do, and what they DON’T want to do.
Take me, no not literally you perv! Now, when I first started crossdressing, it was fun to see how far I could go. Getting in the car to go to a friends party and stuff like that was exciting, especially since I would wear little costumes! Then when I went out to the local night club with the girls it was a real hoot.
But as far as going out, really out like to the store, going for a drink, the restaurant, anything other than a party type of place, I really have no desire. To me, I love crossdressing for the fun of it, the little teasing I feel, and yes, feeling sexy. I do like to see how close I can make myself up to look as much like a girl as I can.
But I really don’t care if I look good enough to pass as a woman, or have the need to have people think I am a woman. Some crossdressers seem to have a real need to try to pass as a woman, a real need to look like a woman. Now, at some point you have to ask yourself if your a crossdresser or a transsexual.
I know some that call themselves a crossdresser, but from what they say they want, they sound like a transsexual to me. Anyway, my point is no one should try to push any crossdresser or any transgender into doing what they don’t feel they want. A lot of crossdressers just want to have a private moment alone crossdressed, and that’s it!
Or some love to do it for the fun, the feminine part. But still have no desire to be seen or want anyone to know, it’s just what they do to feel good. Then of course we have some that get a sexual high from it. They sure don’t want to drag that part of them into the grocery store!
So while we all want to be accepted and all that, we also have to accept that transgenders among ourselves can have much different ideas about what we want. Not all want to dress up and parade down the street with a bullhorn demanding equal rights. Some girls just wanta have fun!