HI there, I wanted to make just a quick post today, I’m trying to have a little relax time for my weekend! I found this video interesting. A crossdresser was banned from his prom because he wanted to wear a long gown. I know some will think it was wrong to ban him, while others will say that was pushing things a bit much. Watch for yourself and see what you think! Have a nice weekend!
My, doesn’t that man look charming in that picture, a beer in one hand, a fairy wand in the other! Not sure if he’s gay or a crossdresser. Well, he could be both! Yes getting caught while your dressed, that is crossdressing, must be one of the biggest fears of a crossdresser. Since I’m talking about it I’ll tell you my close calls.
Now I only have been crossdressing for three years, and almost all this time it’s been while living with my two lesbian roommates. So I have it pretty safe here. There has been maybe 3 or 4 people that showed up at the house when I was crossdressed, all of them friends of the girls.
The people that stopped by when I was dressed were other lesbians, so they just laughed about it, told me how sexy my legs are and that was about it! It was actually a bit of a turn on. Kelly’s brother and boyfriend have seen me several times. Yes they are gay, no nothing happened! Continue reading this post…
Ok ladies, how many of you that are crossdressers go out? By out I mean that you crossdress, at least a bit, in public. Maybe you dress all up and go out to the nightclub, or perhaps just the local pub? Maybe you dress up and go out shopping. Maybe you like to dress up when you go food shopping!
If you do, I think that’s great. You have the balls, so to speak, to go out there the way you want to and damn what anyone thinks. So, do you think that all crossdressers should? Do you think that it should be the goal of every crossdresser to work your way up to going out in public crossdressed, or to try to pass as a girl?
I’ve noticed that there seems to be a lot of crosdressers that try to push, maybe a little too much, other crossdressers to go out in public. Some seem to forget that transgenders are a very big mix of different types of people, all with their own ideas of what they want to do, and what they DON’T want to do. Continue reading this post…
So, it’s time for me to get a post going to poke a few people, maybe make some post a few comments here. I noticed that on my polls, a lot of you are bisexual. I’m not sure how many I thought would be besexual, I never really gave it much thought. I suppose if your a transgender, depending on who you are, there can be a lot of confusion about your sexuality, duh!
Like, if your a transsexual you were born one sex but inside your the other. Or if your gay you like the same sex but are told you should like the opposite. Then with crossdressers there are so many different types. All the while you grow up with people telling you that you should like what deep inside you don’t agree with. Or that you should not dress that way, and on and on.
So, by the time your old enough to try to make a stand on your own, what the hell do you believe you are!! By that time many have had intimate relationships with both sex as you try to fit in with what people tell you is “normal”. So a lot may think they are bisexual just because they have had sex with both genders. Continue reading this post…
Sorry I did not post the other day, too much going on! I STILL have not heard from anyone about that uniform for Ashley. Don’t you care about the poor disappointed kids? I will find one, even if I have to make it myself. Anyways, speaking of hot looking babes, I came across this youtube video for female mask for transgenders and crossdressers.
Actually if you search on youtube for female mask you get quite a few. I picked this one because it really gives a close, detailed look at how a quality female mask can be. I wonder how many transgenders ever use a female mask? If you think you can put one on and become a hot babe that looks perfect, think again.
Yes, the mask can be very lifelike and very beautiful. But, they are still just a mask. That means no moving facial expressions. Kind of like a Hollywood blond, ya know? So you can look nice, but after only a few minutes of looking at someone wearing one you can tell it’s a mask. No mouth movement, no eyebrow movement, nothing. Just as plastic as a politician! Continue reading this post…
Hope your having a wonderful Sunday. It’s been a bit cool this weekend down here in Florida. I made a post several weeks ago about a site that helps all types of transgenders with their loved ones and family. Today I want to showcase a site that is just for crossdressers and their wives.
Most crossdressers are straight. They don’t want to become a woman, are not gay or bi. They just like to crossdress, and what the hell is wrong with that! Unfortunately their wives or girlfriends are not very understanding. They think he is gay, or wants to be a girl, or that he will cheat.
So, there is a neat place in Florida called Phi Epsilon Mu, a chapter of Tri Ess (Society for the Second Self). No, I don’t know why they gave it such a fancy name, heck “crossdressing road shack” would be fine! Anyway it is a place that helps wives and crossdressers try to understand each other and work through the situation so that they can become a happy couple. Continue reading this post…
Well lets see what the heck Bilinda is up to tonight, huh? I don’t have to cook dinner for the girls tonight, so I am getting things done, One of them is this post. I thought I’d write about a sub-niche in the crossdresser label, or maybe it falls under transvestite, I’m not sure. There are some crossdressers that have what I suppose should be called a fetish, called sissy boy.
What this is, is a fantasy of forced feminization. That means the dream of a girl, maybe their wife, girlfriend or a mistress, forcing them to get all dressed up in pretty girly clothes. Also forced to put on makeup, wig, the whole works. Then they are their slave, doing whatever their master tells them. It’s a lot like femdoms, or dominatrixes. The difference is the dress up girly part.
Now it can be part of a sexual theme, being that the outcome will end in sex. Or it can just be that the sissy boy is forced to be a girl for a while, maybe do some chores or something. What the hell fun is that! If your going to go through all that, hold out for a sexual payoff. I suppose gay men might do this same thing if they have this fetish. So what do I think of it? Continue reading this post…
Oops, didn’t mean to yell, sorry. Allow your little Bilinda to explain what the hell she’s talking about. Sometimes I use webmaster tools to see what everyone is searching for the most of on the net. That way I can tell what subjects my readers may want to hear about the most. Sometimes there can be some pretty weird stuff that comes up.
Well the last time I looked at what the word “crossdresser” came up with, one of the top 10 phases was crossdresser stories. Well, that seemed a little strange to me. I mean, I can see how crossdressers want to know about makeup, clothes, information and so on, but stories? What kind, fiction, real life, erotic, helpful, what? Soooo, I went onto good old Google and tried to find out what everyone is looking for.
I came up with,,, well,,, quite a mishmash of different things, and a few eye openers. It turns out that there are a lot of sites that have a lot of fantasy and erotic types of writing about crossdressers and transgenders. I suppose it should not be surprising. I mean, we all seem to be wishing for something. Maybe for our spouse to be ok with who we are, to meet a mate that loved you just as you are, if your a transsexual to wake up one morning in the body you want. Continue reading this post…
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Porn and transgenders / crossdressers, wow what a touchie subject! Lots of sides to this coin, lots of different opinions. So I thought I’d stir the pot a little and add my 2 cents, so pay attention! Now, porn has always been with us, always will be. Every type of race, gender, sex and yes all types of transgenders have porn made about them. I will not bother talking about the usual stuff like teen, big boobs, blonds and all that. I will just talk about the type of porn associated with transgenders.
Indeed, the different niches that the world of adult sites has made with trangenders is quite a list itself. We have crossdresser porn, shemales, tranny’s, T girls, ladyboys and a few more. Femdom, sissyboys, forced fem, oh hell I could go on and on. Then we have the clothing fetish niches that could fill a whole page. So like it or not, transgenders have lots of adult sites made for them.
Now, how do most transgenders feel about all this? Ask 10 of them and you’ll get 10 different answers. I think most transsexuals that are trying to fight for their rights and dignity look at the adult Ladyboy/shemale/tranny industry with disgust and dread. Here they are trying to be treated as equal and respect and along comes Ladyboy Sia moon in her little fishnets and skirt; “I’m a woman with something extra, see me do it all, join now!”. Continue reading this post…
So, I was having a discussion with a friend. We were talking about the different labels and stuff like that we get put under. As we kept talking it got pretty funny because all the different types at some or other got switched around and so confusing. Like that T shirt I saw the other day. It showed a bunch of rednecks holding a sign that said “homosexuals are gay!”
That made me think, what do you call gays that crossdress? For those who don’t know, most crossdressers are straight, not gay as a lot of people assume. However there are gays that crossdress. But the majority of people who don’t know much about gays think of them as pantyhose wearing sissies. This is not true of course, I am!
But, do you call a gay crossdresser a crossdresser, or a gay just being gay? What about “gay crossdresser”. Well, if that was the case I guess we could come up with lots of new labels, huh? What about transvestites, where do they come in? They crossdress, but yet they get to be called transvestite. Now, the difference is, transvestites like a certain type of crossdressing clothes, like panties, or bustiers, or of course pantyhose. Continue reading this post…
