So, it’s time for me to get a post going to poke a few people, maybe make some post a few comments here. I noticed that on my polls, a lot of you are bisexual. I’m not sure how many I thought would be besexual, I never really gave it much thought. I suppose if your a transgender, depending on who you are, there can be a lot of confusion about your sexuality, duh!

Like, if your a transsexual you were born one sex but inside your the other. Or if your gay you like the same sex but are told you should like the opposite. Then with crossdressers there are so many different types. All the while you grow up with people telling you that you should like what deep inside you don’t agree with. Or that you should not dress that way, and on and on.

So, by the time your old enough to try to make a stand on your own, what the hell do you believe you are!! By that time many have had intimate relationships with both sex as you try to fit in with what people tell you is “normal”. So a lot may think they are bisexual just because they have had sex with both genders.

So how do you know your really bisexual? I really believe that almost everyone has a bit of bisexuality in them. Heck if your drunk enough most guys would have sex with tree! As for myself, I have a very open mind about the whole thing. OK, so what the hell does that mean you say!? Is Bilinda straight, gay or bisexual? Heck, why can’t I be all the above!

Ok, I guess for myself it’s a “it depends” thing. Deep down I would love to meet a really cute Asian hottie girl, marry her and live happily ever after, as long as we can both wear a dress around the house! But, while I’m still single, if we happen to have a big party, everyone gets drunk, and some cute guy/guys want to play around, well, I’m open minded!

Of course people outside the transgender community think that we are all gay or bisexual. Now I do believe there are a lot that are true bisexuals. They really like, or love each gender, in their own way. What about all those porn star girls that always seem to do both, are they really bisexual? No, I don’t think most are, I think it’s the money talking!

It always seems easier for women to go both ways than men. What about transsexuals that have both breast and a penis? Is a girl or guy that dates them bisexual? Most would say they are not. My, are we confused yet? Damn, what happens if we ever get visited by aliens, we could have several more genders!

Well if you are bisexual you’ve got it good, you can have the best of both worlds. But there must be some drawbacks. Everyone wants to fall in love and be with that one special someone. Who do you choose if your bisexual? I know of some that have an open relationship, but still that’s not really a final solution.

So what do you think about it all? What do you think you are, or are you still confused about who you are? After all this I’m not sure myself! Maybe I should just get a nice multi-gender doll and stick with that. Anyway I’d love to hear your take on it. I’m taking the day off tomorrow, so no post. But I’ll be happy to respond to any comments on this one!