Well hi everyone, it’s been a lovely weekend so far here in Florida. I’m getting better at jogging, up to about 3 or 4 miles before I have to stop! Yeah I know for some that’s just a warm up, but a lot of people can’t even jog 100 yards! It sure is nice to be somewhere that I can jog all year. But when summer comes it’s going to be damn hot, then I’ll jog at night.

Anyway, I know I make most of my post lite and fluffy, but I wanted to share a very important site I found that might really help some of you. I thought that with Valentines just gone some couples may have some issues, especially if your a transgender and in a bad relationship.

Now there can be a very wide range of relationship issues for straight couples when one is transgender. Maybe your a crosssdresser who really wants to let your wife know about your desires. Maybe your a transsexual who tried to make a straight relationship work but can no longer bear to live your life like it is. Maybe your gay, and now know it’s time to come out. There are so many different scenarios here, but they all have to do with being honest about who you are to your mate. Continue reading this post…

Tax time for transgenders, I guess it’s no different to us as it is to all the others, we all just get screwed! Except we get a nice pink frilly ribbon around it maybe. Now this year is a bit different, in case you haven’t heard. Ol Bushy boy, aka the president, is giving everybody a little gift. It’s suppose to stimulate the economy. You have to file a tax return to get it, that’s the only way they can keep track of who to send it to.

For most it is $600.00 bucks. For some it’s only $300.00. It depends on what you make, if you owe and if your married, have kids and so on. The important thing is you have to file an income tax return in order to get it. The faster you fill out your return the faster you get your money. Personally I think giving everyone 600 bucks is not going to do Jack, but if he’s giving it out I’ll take it. Or maybe my creditors, I’ll have to look into that!

I always do my own taxes, and I do it right online. It’s so much easier that way, if you have the right program. I use CompleteTax.
They are really easy to use, and if you don’t make much it’s even free. That means I haven’t paid for mine in years! I alway seem to do some type of self-employed job, so my taxes are a bit more complex than most. But I still think it’s pretty easy. Continue reading this post…

Hello my transgender sisters, it’s the day after Valentines day. Hope everyone made it through the day ok. The V day can be rough on singles and the ones not in a happy, Brady Bunch family. I bet there was a lot of little blue pills popped last night! Make sure you take a bunch of those chocolates for lunch today, you’ll need them to stay awake if you got to sleep late last night.

So I thought I’d make this post a little mid winter break post. Otherwise known as a post about,,,, nothing. Just some ramblings of mine for this time of year. See the nice picture above? I took that in my last trip up to my home state of Vermont. I though those of you who live in the snow belt could use a nice, summer type of picture right about now! I use to trout fish in that stream.

I have a bunch of pictures I want to put in the gallery page. Just a little “Bilinda’s” page of pictures I’ve taken over the years. I can take some pretty good ones. My new transgender / crossdresser pictures that I made with that talented artist has been a big hit, lots of people looking at them. That made me think about maybe adding a comics page with popular strips. I’m looking at one right now, I will see what happens. Continue reading this post…

Love is in the air, yeah yeah,,, oh enough! Yes another Vday is upon us. It’s kind of a funny day. I mean, it’s on a Thursday, we don’t get the day off. How are lovers suppose to “celebrate” if they have to get up early to go to work the next day! Maybe that’s why chocolate is part of the whole thing, to give you enough energy to make it through the next day.

Of course it’s only a great day if your in love, or have a long time partner. If your single or in a bad relationship, the day really sucks the bag!! If your single, your reminded that you have no one in your life and your a loser. If your in a bad relationship, it makes you wonder what your life would be like if you had only married someone else (or living with some one else, whatever your modern living arrangement is).

Your Bilinda understands your pain if your in the above situations. Most of my life Valentines day was an empty day, full of pain. Or, if I was with someone, It made me realise I did not love my partner, it was just for the cheap,,,meals! The florist have a field day, how can anyone charge a hundred bucks for a bunch of flowers that will die in 5 days! Here in Florida we get a bunch of vans parked at every intersection on Valentines day, selling second hand roses for 5 bucks a dozen. Oh you romeo you! Don’t forget a nice 3 dollar box of chocolates from 7-11!! Continue reading this post…

It’s time for another earth shattering, myth busting, the true shall be heard post! Oh wait, that was for my other blog, “Bilinda, queen of the universe and divine holy spirit of thy deep pocket people”. Well, you’ll just have to settle for a post about drag queens here! Now, I have heard several different things about men who are drag queens and wanted to explore that a bit.

So just who is a drag queen? Or, just what IS a drag queen? They also are called female impersonators. A drag queen is a man who dresses as a woman and puts on a performance. No not in the bedroom you freak! By performance I mean on a stage, or acting. Most of the time they sing, dance and can tell jokes or be humorous. A well known bar here in Orlando has a very good drag queen show that plays twice a night on the weekends, it’s called The Parliament House.

Darcel Stevens is a very well known drag queen there. I have seen her shows many times. She is very funny, sings great and really knows how to act. So a drag queen is almost like an actor, or actress, both! Ok, so WHO is a drag queen, what type of person plays the role of female impersonator? Most people assume a drag queen must be gay and/or wants to be a woman. WRONG! Continue reading this post…

Yes it’s time again for another cosmetic tip from Bilinda! Damn, I think I’ve covered almost everything now. No, there always will be something, otherwise we’d all look perfect, and I don’t see that happening. So this post is about putting on eye shadow and blush, which is the final touches on the cake,,er,, I mean face.

Before you put on your eyeshadow and blush you should have all the other steps done. Shaved, applied beard cover, cream foundation, powder, eyeliner, eyelash mascara. Now, stick with subtle colors in the beginning. Pale pinks, peach, lavender, gray, rose and so on. Use pressed powder, it goes on easier and better. A lot of girls use 2 or 3 colors for eyeshadow. What you do is blend them into each other.

Your upper eyelid has 3 parts. The lower lid, which is from where your eyelashes are to where it is indented, or the crease. Then the line, or crease that is the point between the lower and upper lid. Then the upper lid, which is from the crease to the brow. Now most use a darker shade on the lower lid, then a lighter shade on the rest. You can use 2 or 3 shades, it takes a lot of experimenting with lots of shades to find the look that’s best for you. Continue reading this post…

So how is your weekend going? Having fun, sleeping in, going out maybe? Or maybe your like me, working! When you work at home one day is just like the next. There is always two sides to the coin. On the one hand, you can get up later, dress in whatever you want and don’t have to put up with people you don’t like. Of course you also don’t have to drive to work, which more and more is getting to be very expensive and time consuming.

On the other hand, everybody thinks they can bother you anytime and it’s hard to stay focused on your work. I write post for people, as well as write this blog, plus I’m starting on some others. I myself love to work from home, but some just can’t get the hang of it. If you have no discipline to focus on work you’ll never get anything done. Your always thinking “well I really need to mow the lawn, I have laundry to do, maybe I should do those dishes before doing any more work”!

I wonder how many of you readers blog? There are lots of places you can blog, using lots of programs. I like wordpress. I have my own domain name and my own hosting, but lots of people use other stuff. Myspace, Yahoo, Google, heck tons of places offer free blogs you can make. Of course the difference is, are you just doing it for a hobby, or to make money? Continue reading this post…

Hello everyone, I have another cosmetic tip post for you all today, joy joy! This one is about putting on eyeliner and eyelash mascara. Now, having a good looking eyeliner on is perhaps one of the most important things you can do. People look at your eyes, so you don’t want black spots in your eyeballs or have it look like someone just slugged you!

Now, there are two types of eyeliner, pencil and liquid. The pencil type is easier to make look good, but you have to put more pressure on your lids. Liquid is harder to get right, but looks so much better and is faster once you know how to put it on. I myself use liquid. Whatever you use, get one with a very fine point. Go with standard black color until you get good at it.

Ok, you want to draw your lines on the INSIDE of your lower lash, not the outside. That is, you draw on that very thin ridge between where it hugs your eyeball and your lashes. BUT, you follow just OUTSIDE your lash on the upper lash, You kind of follow the base of the lashes. So, start at the corner of your eye where your nose is and draw all the way to the other side, both top and bottom lashes. It helps if you pull your skin a bit to pull it away from your eyeball. Continue reading this post…

Eehh,,, what’s up doc? You better be feeling good, it’s Friday! Last day of the work week, for most anyways. I will take it a bit easy this weekend, but I still will work, my writing stuff never stops! The girls are going to be gone most of the weekend, so it will be peaceful. Not that I don’t want them around! I better stop now huh?

Ok, I have great news today! A while back, I was looking through a transgender forum, trying to get ideas. Not steal them, just get some ideas, borrow them, oh you know what I mean! I came across one thread that had some very nice, amazingly cool toons. Not just any toons, but crossdresser toons. Not just crossdresser toons, but ones with your favorite cartoon characters dressed as sissy girls! Or is that sissy boys? Well you get the idea.

So, I had a hell of a time tracking the artist down, but I finally did. Turns out he has a nice Yahoo 360 page. I was going to make one anyways, so I did, then messaged him asking if I could showcase his work here. He is a very nice guy, or girl, not sure what he prefers, lol. He said sure, why not? So I am happy to say I have added a neat new crossdresser toon page to my gallery section! I think there are about 24 toons. Continue reading this post…

If your looking for crossdresser porn, click here!

Porn and transgenders / crossdressers, wow what a touchie subject! Lots of sides to this coin, lots of different opinions. So I thought I’d stir the pot a little and add my 2 cents, so pay attention! Now, porn has always been with us, always will be. Every type of race, gender, sex and yes all types of transgenders have porn made about them. I will not bother talking about the usual stuff like teen, big boobs, blonds and all that. I will just talk about the type of porn associated with transgenders.

Indeed, the different niches that the world of adult sites has made with trangenders is quite a list itself. We have crossdresser porn, shemales, tranny’s, T girls, ladyboys and a few more. Femdom, sissyboys, forced fem, oh hell I could go on and on. Then we have the clothing fetish niches that could fill a whole page. So like it or not, transgenders have lots of adult sites made for them.

Now, how do most transgenders feel about all this? Ask 10 of them and you’ll get 10 different answers. I think most transsexuals that are trying to fight for their rights and dignity look at the adult Ladyboy/shemale/tranny industry with disgust and dread. Here they are trying to be treated as equal and respect and along comes Ladyboy Sia moon in her little fishnets and skirt; “I’m a woman with something extra, see me do it all, join now!”. Continue reading this post…