Planes, we love them, we hate them. Planes get us where we want to go faster than anything else, yet the lines and waits seem to be the longest we’ve ever been in! Just about everybody has been on a plane at least once. Flying on a plane for crossdressers should be no different than anybody, except we have to pack for two!

I actually took flying lessons when I was young,,,,er. It was back when I lived in Vermont. I flew a Cessna, a small plane popular with private pilots. Flying a small plane really makes you appreciate the force planes go through while flying. I thought it would feel so easy and fluffy, it’s not. It felt like flying through jello, constant force pushing you up, down and sideways.

Anyways I ran out of money before I could get my license. Maybe someday I’ll try again, or get an ultralight, which requires no license. Most of my commercial flying has been on the east coast, as I fly from Florida to Vermont to see my mom and friends. I use the Orlando International airport to fly out of. So, let Bilinda tell you a few flying tips! Continue reading this post…

So how are my crossdressing friends tonight, hmmm? I have GOT to get my thong in gear and start posting in the mornings instead of the evening! It’s just that I’m not a morning person, ya know? Oh well, maybe someday. Lets just think of my blog as the evening paper, ok?

So you may have noticed I have no polls on this site, at least not yet. Transgenders seem big on polls. There are so many things we could take polls on, like:
1. what label do you consider yourself to be in?
2. are you straight, gay, bi or other?
3. Are you “out” or in the closet?
4. do you crossdress a lot or little?
5. do you think purple makes me look fat?

Yes we could have soooo much fun with polls. So why the hell don’t I have any on here? Because I seem to have the wordpress version that came from the damned! I have tried every regular poll plugin from the wordpress site, and each one does not show up. It’s just not there, gone. It’s like this version does not “see” the plugin. Continue reading this post…

So, I was having a discussion with a friend. We were talking about the different labels and stuff like that we get put under. As we kept talking it got pretty funny because all the different types at some or other got switched around and so confusing. Like that T shirt I saw the other day. It showed a bunch of rednecks holding a sign that said “homosexuals are gay!”

That made me think, what do you call gays that crossdress? For those who don’t know, most crossdressers are straight, not gay as a lot of people assume. However there are gays that crossdress. But the majority of people who don’t know much about gays think of them as pantyhose wearing sissies. This is not true of course, I am!

But, do you call a gay crossdresser a crossdresser, or a gay just being gay? What about “gay crossdresser”. Well, if that was the case I guess we could come up with lots of new labels, huh? What about transvestites, where do they come in? They crossdress, but yet they get to be called transvestite. Now, the difference is, transvestites like a certain type of crossdressing clothes, like panties, or bustiers, or of course pantyhose. Continue reading this post…

What’s up my transgender sisters? Well from the picture above some of you have a few questions for your little Bilinda. You see, this site has “A transgender community for transsexuals, cross dressers & transvestites” as the title. Ok, fine. But, some of you have pointed out that, at 2 months or so old, I have had only around 2 or 3 post about transsexuals.

So what gives, is Bilinda anti-transsexual or something? No no, nothing like that. Put those pitch forks away, your going to make a run in my stockings! When I set out to make this site, I wanted it to be a site so all transgenders would feel at home here. Now, that term is so damn broad I thought “where do I draw a line about what I write about”? I mean, gays can also be lumped under that term, and then we have the whole spectrum of Androgyne, intersex, bi and so on.

I identify myself as a crossdresser, followed closely by transvestite, with a twist of this and that, all wrapped up in silk bows and nylon, wweeeeeee! The term transsexual, to myself and most people I think, is most closely associated with being a transgender. In fact there has been many heated post about how a lot of transsexuals feel only they should be regarded as transgender, and the others as “just” a crossdresser or whatever. (pantyhosed pervert has been suggested by some). Continue reading this post…

Pantyhose wearing sissyboy transvestite pervert! Ah yes, stockings and pantyhose, nothings more feminine than those. A crossdresser is not complete without at least a few different types of stockings. Every type of transgender loves them! Now, there are a few different types, from nude, hardly can tell you have them on pantyhose, to neon pink fishnets that scream THIS BUDS FOR YOU!!

Lets start with the basic pantyhose. Hose comes in silk or nylon. A nice pair of silk hose over freshly shaved legs feels almost as good as sex! No wonder so many women wear them. They come in waist height, suspender style or thigh highs. They also come in many colors, nude, black and brown being the most common. Try each and see what you like.

Then we have body suits. These baby’s are very sexy, covering your whole body. They are very stretchy, hugging your curves (on some it’s more like hills). Some come with sleeves, most are sleeveless. They come in many patterns, some are crotchless. Black, red and white are standard colors. They can hide many imperfections of your skin, not that your anything but perfect, of course! Continue reading this post…

Ahhh Jewelry, a crossdressers final touch of elegance. Or for any woman, for that matter. No matter how great your hair (wig) comes out, how perfect your nails are, how you nailed your eyeliner THIS time, it’s not complete without Jewelry. A lot of first time crossdressers don’t think much about Jewelry. BIG mistake girl, big mistake!

Jewelry is like the trimmings on a Christmas tree, it’s just another tree until it’s covered with shiny neat stuff! Jewelry also makes you look more feminine, and we all need that now don’t we. So let’s look at the common types of Jewelry we all should have.

EARRINGS. If you don’t wear anything else, you MUST wear earrings! Those are the best way to look feminine and pretty. Now, I myself have never had my ears pierced. If you don’t mind doing that, you can wear a lot more styles. If not, there are still plenty out there that are the clip on type. Try the dollar store, or Google “clip on earrings” and you will find a lot. Now, what style do you choose? Continue reading this post…

They say you can tell a lot about a person from the type of car or truck they drive. I don’t fully believe that. I just KNOW I’m a BMW type of transgender, but I have never been able to afford one! Well maybe the people who can get whatever type of vehicle they want are easy to figure out.

You know, redneck Bubba drives a big-ass 4X4 pickup, soccer mom with 3 teens drives a van, vain and rich Mr. Henley drives a Lincoln continental. But what about transgenders, what do they drive? A hybrid? One of those crosses between a car and a SUV? No, I don’t think a persons sexual leaning or gender decides what type of car they get.

I think as people change the type of vehicle they drive changes too. Let’s take a look at your Bilinda here, shall we? My very first vehicle was a 1969 willeys jeep, the original army type. That baby could go anywhere, snow, ice, mud, you name it. Of course it did all that slow, very slow. It was geared low and was not much for the highway. It also was damn cold, nothing more than a tin shell for the body. And this was when I lived in Vermont! Continue reading this post…

What’s up tonight girls, doing anything fun? I got my haircut today, nice and short. Frank, my stylist told me how he went to my site here and just looked at the pictures. Oh sure Frankie poo, look at my hottie pictures but don’t take the time to read any of my post huh! Men, gay or not, just always have one thing in mind. You better not have one of my pictures on your ceiling!!!

I have to cook dinner soon, chicken on the grill, stove top stuffing and baby carrots, mmmm. So, I thought this would be a good night to show a Utube video so I can make this post fast. This video is from a popular crossdresser who is chinese, or something like that. He shows how to do a “quick change” cross dress. But hey, don’t they all look the same anyway? Just kidding, put those torches down! Really the guy is good. So, enjoy the video, and Frank, leave me a comment on this, it’s not that hard to figure out!

Hellloooooo everyone! Well how the hell are my crossdressing sisters tonight, hmmm? Your Bilinda is feeling a little better this week, things are coming along a little nicer. I forgot to mention it, and also because I don’t want anyone to know the exact date, but I had my birthday a few days ago. Yes that’s right, your little Bilinda is now 29,,,, again!

Moving right along, I wanted to share a twist that has just happened with my job situation. Now if you’ve been following my post (of course you have,,right) I have been having quite a time with them. First I got a cleaning job I kept for one night, then started another one. Then I found the place to give plasma so I could do good while making a few extra bucks.

Well now I have started a different type of job, and so far it’s the best! You see, I am active on several web forum boards. You know, those places you get a user name and then can post questions and answers to everyone about whatever the subject is where the board is. Well, I have several friends on them, and after looking at this blog and knowing I needed work one asked If I would write for them! Continue reading this post…

Helloooooo girls!! How is everything going today, umm? Good I hope, not angry at the boss, even if he is growing pointy haired huh! Well today I thought I’d dive into the whole high heels and crossdressers thing. Nothing makes more of a sexy, feminine, come-hither look than a girl in high heels. In fact it can be downright hard to look sexy without wearing some type of heel.

However, as natural women learn in their teens when they start trying to look good to boys, heels where made by the anti-Christ! You see after Eve ate that apple God went to the devil and said “hey man, I got to teach that woman a lesson, your good at torturing souls, what would you do?” The devil said ” every time a woman tries to look sexy and full of herself, zap her with pain”. But God didn’t have time to go around zapping all those women, so he just made some shoes and convinced women they HAD to wear them to look sexy, then made them in a way that cause excruciating pain after 10 minutes of wearing them!

And that is how the high heels were born. Now, if you think it hurts for women to wear them, just add 80 lbs., 5 sizes bigger feet, and a foot more height and you have the crossdresser! Let me explain why anyone looks better in heels. By raising the heel, it throws your weight forward. That causes you to lean back slightly, straighting your back and throwing your hips back more. It also cause you to throw out your chest. So you now are thrusting your boobs out, while perking your butt out more, perfect! Continue reading this post…