What’s happening everyone, hhmmmm? It’s Thursday, the end is near,,, the work week I mean. I was just checking my e-mail and got another one saying “Roxy wants to be added as your friend on myspace”. Oh yeah, I have a myspace place. Not in my Bilinda name, but my other name, you know,,, what’s his name! I wonder how many of you have a myspace? Or maybe a facebook page?

I don’t know much about facebook, but I know a LOT about Myspace. My friend Ashley has one as well as me. Since I know a lot about image making and code she has me help her a lot with her page. Her theme is,,, Madonna! Yeah she loves her, went to her last concert in Miami. At first Myspace seemed pretty cool, but then you always get the creeps that take all the fun out of it.

Like all those “friends” that want to join you. Then if you accept them and go to their profile it’s pretty much empty except for a line saying “Hi, I found this really cool site where you can see much more of me, a lot more than on myspace. So click here to see me in my bikini or less!!” Or you get the webcam girl who wants you to join her website and pay to see her “because I really like your looks!” Oh, I look like a fool who will pay 6 bucks a minute to see you floss your ass with your thong huh,, gee thanks!! Continue reading this post…

Yes it’s time for another makeup tip from your little Bilinda. I’m making a lot of makeup tip post because I want to put them all in a new page I’m making. That way you can just go there to see all about makeup tips. So today it’s the eyebrows. Now, men have two strikes against them when it comes to brows. They have more heavy, thicker brows, and they are generally lower on your face than a woman.

But, we can do a little about both, and I’ll explain how. Almost every man has brows that are too thick. So, that means we will need to wax them. Now, waxing brows does not hurt very much. The brow hairs come out pretty easy. There are basically two types of wax for brows, liquid you heat and apply, or strips. I have tried both, and I like the strips better.

With strips you can cut them just the way you want, and don’t have to hurry up like liquid before it hardens. I myself use strips made by Nair, but any good brand will do. You can find them at any department stores or beauty shop. Normally they will come with brow “forms”, simple cutouts that you choose which most matches your brow style. You just hold the form up on your brow and take any hair around it away. Continue reading this post…

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Yes yes yes! Finally, after a lot of looking, trying and searching, I got a poll script to work on my site! I have one in my sidebar you see on the left, but that’s from a different place. I was going to use that, but in the last week I have signed up with them, they have been down twice. So, I kept looking for something that would really be mine.

I finally found one called WP-poll plug in for wordpress, which is what I use for this site. Now, I’ve downloaded it before, and it did not work with my version. But, I saw how they had a new version, and this one works! So if you look to your left in my menu selection, you’ll see a page called “Transgender polls & facts”. That is where I just made a whole page of polls.

Now, when I thought of what to ask, I thought about what most transgenders and crossdressers would like to know about others like them. Everyone has that “am I the only one who does this, or likes that” question in their mind. So I tried to cover as much as I could. I grouped them in different sections. Some are lifestyle polls, clothing polls, how much you try to look like a babe poll! Continue reading this post…

Wow, this Utube video I found is so cool, I had to share. It seems as though the dolphins at Sea World, Orlando, where I’m from (Orlando, not Sea World, I don’t like showing off THAT much!) have been taught, or learned themselves, to blow bubble rings! Now not just a big bubble, but a ring, just like a smoke ring. What’s more, they follow it and try to swim through the ring, or make it do a wobbly dance!

Dolphins, as most people know, are very smart. I have been to Sea World many times and the things they do are truly incredible. I know a few people there, so I use to go about every week! Sea World is not like the other theme parks. It’s a more laid back, slower paced park. Of course it’s an animal and marine park, but also has recently added some damn fast roller coasters and rides.

So if your in the Orlando area visiting, please try to spend a day at Sea World, it’s a nice break from the hurry hurry bustle of the other parks. And of course, make sure you watch the dolphins blow bubble rings!

Alrighty my crossdressing girls, today I’m going to tell you all about putting on a good foundation, cream color and powder to your face. We girls can have a lot of lines, pock marks and so on that need to be covered up like Spackle! The whole point is to make your face look smooth, one uniform color and as a base to add any color like blush or eye highlights.

Now, as I said in another post about shaving, you need to have a very good shaved face. If you did not read it please do so. Ok, you have a nice shaved face and cleaned it real good. The first thing you need to apply is what many call beard cover. It is a paste, almost like cream foundation but thicker and harder. It is a lot like white clown face paste. It can be white, colored or even pink.

Take small dabs of it and dot your beard area with it. That is your neck, chin, jawline and most of your cheeks. Anywhere you have hair you shave. Make dots about an inch apart. Then take your fingers or a  cosmetic sponge and smooth it all out, blending it all into each other. What it does is hide the shadow of your hair and smooth out your skin, filling in small holes and open pores. Continue reading this post…

Hello everyone, hope your day goes well. Today I would like to explain all about removing and trimming your facial hair for putting on makeup. My, there is so many steps we crossdressers have to do to get a great face! It all starts with how good a job you do removing unwanted hair. Now, if you really want to do a permanent job on your beard you can always use electrolysis or laser treatments.

But for most of us that’s too expensive and/or time consuming. So, we just have to use the old razor and wax. Now, I want to tell you something I did once just in case you also might be stupid enough to try. I once took this wax sheet made for waxing your legs, and stuck it to the side of my face when I had a bit of stubble. I figured if it works on legs why not your face?

Now this was back when I first started out on all this hair removal stuff, I knew nothing about it. Waxing my legs was pretty easy, not all that much pain, so the rest of your body must be the same, right? Sooooo, I warmed it up, pressed it real hard on my cheek, got a firm hold of one end and with one quick movement I snapped that baby down and out! Continue reading this post…

Actor Heath Ledger, who played gay cowboy Ennis Del Mar in the ground breaking film Brokeback Mountain, was found dead at his Apt. yesterday. This is such sad news. He was only 28. His housekeeper found him face down on the floor unresponsive with a bunch of pills nearby. They do not know yet if his death was from the pills, but it looks that way. They were over-the-counter sleeping medication. He had a  Lower Manhattan apartment.

I saw Brokeback Mountain here in Florida with my two lesbian friends at the Florida film festival. It was a very moving movie, very real with all the pain, bitterness and naked truth. At the time it was controversal. Not because it was a gay movie, but because it dared to go where no one had gone before. Showing two cowboys in love out in the old west, well that was going into macho man territory!

Heath Ledger was born in Perth, Australia. He started acting as a child at a local theater. He was in several movies before Brokeback Mountain. “10 Things I Hate About You” “The Patriot” “A Knight’s Tale” and “Monster’s Ball” was some of his earlier movies. Then came Brokeback Mountain, which earned him an Oscar nomination. Continue reading this post…

To butt or not to butt, THAT is the question! Crossdressers go through an awful lot to look like a sexy, curvy woman. Some of us have it easy. Feminine features, nice curves, very little body hair. Then there are,,,, the rest of us. I myself have two things going for me. I have little body hair, and I have a great ass! Even my lady friends say they wish they had my butt. I offer it to them all the time, but I guess that’s not what they mean.

Anyhoooow, it’s safe to say most guys lack in the curves department. Now, I’ve already had a 3 part post about the boobs, so if you want to know about those look them up under cosmetic tips. That leaves the hips and butt. If we could just use our curves in the belly and put them in the hips and butt most of us would be all set!

But we are not cartoon characters, so we can’t. So, how to make ourselves look better in the hips and butt? Even women have that problem, or think they do. Today there are many types and styles of butt pads, underwear and one piece solid clothing to choose from. First, lets talk about the pads. Continue reading this post…

Every crossdresser wants full, pouty, kiss me now lips! Watching women do it looks so easy, then you try it. Not so easy is it. Making a males lips look good are hindered by two things, most of us have thin lips, and most have dry lips. But if your willing to practice, a LOT, it can be done. I’m not a pro, but I’ll tell you what I know.

First thing is, make damn sure your lips are not really dry. The reason is much more than you think. When I started to do it, I had really dry lips. I put the lipstick on, kept it on for, oh 3 hours or so. During that time my dry lips ABSORBED THE LIPSTICK! So when it came time to take it off,,, AAHHHHH! I could not get it all off.

I frantically scrubbed and washed for a long time, thinking of good excuses for work tomorrow (oh this, it’s cool-aid, I drink it all the time). So, do one of two things. Apply some lip moisturiser on your lips, or put a thin coat of chap stick over them. Ok now that you have done that, you will need these:
LIP LINER
LIPSTICK APPLICATOR
LIPSTICK Continue reading this post…

Crossdressing dating services? Yes they are out there. Not sure how many of you know about them. Of course, there are quite a few different ones. Anytime you have dating services you have anything from a place for friends to meet that have something in common, to full meat market “I’ll take two of those nice rump roast please” sites!

But if it’s a dating service for crossdressers, does it mean a crossdresser looking for another CD? Or a guy, or girl looking for a crossdresser? Maybe a crossdresser looking for someone who is ok with and wants to meet a CD? I think all of the above applies. One place called dateacrossdresser.com seems to be a mixed bag place.

Since most crossdressers are heterosexual, I guess it’s for gay CD’s, or maybe bi, or perhaps for the “haven’t made up my mind yet” set. Of course we always have the ones looking for the shemale, or tranny types. Pre-opt transsexuals don’t fall into that category. Then we have the places that don’t say dating service, but are for “admirers” of crossdressers or transgenders. What the hell does that mean? “See that blond with the big boobs and tight ass, man I so admire her!” Continue reading this post…

Planes, we love them, we hate them. Planes get us where we want to go faster than anything else, yet the lines and waits seem to be the longest we’ve ever been in! Just about everybody has been on a plane at least once. Flying on a plane for crossdressers should be no different than anybody, except we have to pack for two!

I actually took flying lessons when I was young,,,,er. It was back when I lived in Vermont. I flew a Cessna, a small plane popular with private pilots. Flying a small plane really makes you appreciate the force planes go through while flying. I thought it would feel so easy and fluffy, it’s not. It felt like flying through jello, constant force pushing you up, down and sideways.

Anyways I ran out of money before I could get my license. Maybe someday I’ll try again, or get an ultralight, which requires no license. Most of my commercial flying has been on the east coast, as I fly from Florida to Vermont to see my mom and friends. I use the Orlando International airport to fly out of. So, let Bilinda tell you a few flying tips! Continue reading this post…

So how are my crossdressing friends tonight, hmmm? I have GOT to get my thong in gear and start posting in the mornings instead of the evening! It’s just that I’m not a morning person, ya know? Oh well, maybe someday. Lets just think of my blog as the evening paper, ok?

So you may have noticed I have no polls on this site, at least not yet. Transgenders seem big on polls. There are so many things we could take polls on, like:
1. what label do you consider yourself to be in?
2. are you straight, gay, bi or other?
3. Are you “out” or in the closet?
4. do you crossdress a lot or little?
5. do you think purple makes me look fat?

Yes we could have soooo much fun with polls. So why the hell don’t I have any on here? Because I seem to have the wordpress version that came from the damned! I have tried every regular poll plugin from the wordpress site, and each one does not show up. It’s just not there, gone. It’s like this version does not “see” the plugin. Continue reading this post…