”Oh I got the blues,,, yeah those cross dressing holiday bluuueesss,,, nobody knows how bluUEE Bilinda can get,,, yeah she’s got the holiday cross dressing bluuueesss”. Yes it’s that most wonderful time of the year, when all the happy people bustle about, all the songs are about Christmas, and everybody is basically saying “BE HAPPY DAMNIT”!!!

Well that is fine if your a nice suburban couple with 2.5 kids, 3 cars, a nice pension plan, health coverage and you have a nice warm Island lined up for your Holiday vacation. “Oh I just know Jonathan is going to get me that diamond necklace we looked at. He knows the other one he got me last year just doesn’t go with my Prada purse!”

 Then we have,,,,,, the rest of us! From your ordinary hard working mom and pop, to all you singles, to our men and women in the service, the hard working farm families, people in the inner cities just trying to make it till tomorrow. And of course us gays and transgenders, who know very well the feeling of “looking in from the outside”. Continue reading this post…

 As you know, or at least you SHOULD know if you have been reading my post, Your little Bilinda has been out job hunting. At first I thought, let’s do a Tootsie thing, get all dressed up and get a job as a woman! But, I don’t think I’m THAT convincing as a girl, plus wearing a hot wig and makeup for a long time does not appeal to me.

So this transgender hit the bricks as plain old Bill, making sure all my nail polish was off ( but I kept the panties on). I have not gone out job hunting for years. Seems like I have always been self employed or worked for friends. I’m just looking for part time work, and if you know about my 90% deafness then that eliminates a lot of jobs most take for granted.

No customer service, no sales, nothing where you have to talk to customers a lot. I can’t get a job as an air traffic controller either! So I stopped by the big box places, walmart, home depot, publix grocery, places where I could get a stocking, cleaning or night work where I can just be by myself. I am very good with working on my own without screwing around. Go in, get your work done, do it right, go home. Continue reading this post…

 Britney Spears, a transgender, cross dressing drag king? Who knows, she sure has seemed to have tried just about everything in her life hasn’t she now? Oh you poor thing Britney, what have you done to yourself? I remember when she was just a little girl, singing in the Mickey Mouse club. She was so cute, so pure! Then as she grew up she seemed to have a fixation on Madonna.

She really looked up to Madonna. I think she set her goal to be as famous, rich and as “bad girl” naughty as the material girl. When your an international success at a young age, it tends to do strange things to you. I remember when Britney Spears was in her prime, singing and Gyrating around on stage, whoa baby!!! She had the hottest body I had ever seen, I had such a crush on her. She could get into my panties anytime!

But, she seemed to go so fast, without a chance to slow down and look around. Britney seemed to think if she just showed a lot of skin and acted real bad-ass that was all it took. Well, she got the famous part right, and the money. But unlike Madonna she never got the respect part. Madonna worked hard, doing what she believed in, not just following someone. She really learned how to dance, how to sing. Britney just let people tell her what she should do. Continue reading this post…

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Cross dressing & Politics, it’s not something I like to talk about. If you ever want to read me something for bedtime to put me to sleep, just say anything about Republicans or Democrats. Works every time! But, since I am trying to make this place informative, I suppose I should have at least one post about it,,,, just one!

We all know the names that are most in the news, Hillary “dragon lady” Clinton, Barack “am I black enough” Obama and Rudy “she’s wearing my dress” Giuliani! I admit, for a long time I never voted, never cared to. Now I vote, but I don’t really see the point. I mean, if there was SOMEONE I really liked and hoped to be President, great, clear the way and let me punch out those hanging chads. Continue reading this post…

 This little cross dresser loves movies! To be honest, I don’t watch ANY television. No, not one bit. While everyone else is trying to outdo the Joneses with the biggest and best HD screens, I could care less if I even had one in my house. My roommates have two, one in their bedroom and one in the living room, both flat screens.

Kelly loves to watch TV, mostly true story crime or cop shows. Ashley is not as big a fan, but watches because that’s what Kelly wants to do, lol. But me, I never watch it at all. When I was a kid I was the total opposite. I would watch TV all the time, I had one in my room. Star trek, oh yes, that was my must see TV!

Also I remember I could get home from school just in time to watch all in the family and then the Jefferson’s. I watched in my room with the door closed because of my hearing loss, I had that sucker as loud as it could go! Even then I sat real close to it with my hand cupped over my left ear to hear better. Then at night I’d watch 4 hours or so of it. Plus cartoons on the weekend. Wow, that was a lot! Continue reading this post…

 TGIF! Yes we girls made it through another week, and now it’s party time, or relaxing time, depending on how you are. The picture has nothing to do with anything, I just thought it would be good for this time of year. My post tonight is a little bit of everything.

I have been doing a lot of “networking” this week. I joined not one but two TG/CD/TV sites. You know, the ones that have chat rooms, forums, stuff like that to meet new friends and uh, more! One I am sure a lot of you know, urnotalone. The other one is based in the UK, tvChix. I LOVE how the British talk!

I can talk with a British accent, “love ya look dearies, care to join in the chat room with the others lads”! I’m not making fun, I really like how they talk. I must say though having other girls rate my pics as hot and having “admirers” is a bit new to me. I myself am very at ease talking in forums. Continue reading this post…

 Who wants to be a transvestite!? What the hell is Bilinda talking about now? Well let me tell you dear. The picture at the left, is it a picture of a transvestite, or a picture of a cross dresser? Well most people would say cross dresser. If you asked the guy in the picture I am pretty sure he would say so also. (well, gay too).

Now then, lets get a picture of something else. Lets picture Dr. Frank-N-Furter, from the rocky horror picture show. You HAVE seen that movie I am sure. Now, would you call him a transvestite or a cross dresser? AH HA!! No problem there, he’s a transvestite. But why, why is it so easy to say he is, and the other one is not?

Let’s be very honest here, it’s because most people picture a transvestite as some off the wall, kinky type with pink hair, blood red lipstick, corset, dog collar and thigh high stockings on. The point I am trying to make is, it seems like no one, even within the transgender community, wants to be called a transvestite. Continue reading this post…

 Wow, what a lovely day in Orlando it was today! After this post I’m going out to take a jog. Sorry, I don’t mean to rub it in if you live up north. THIS is why I came down here! Anyway I wanted to make this post about married men who cross dress.

Now, I have never been married, so I may not qualify to say much about this. But I have been doing a lot of research, and this is what I found out. It seems like quite a few middle age, married men with kids cross dress. No one has any real percentages, but I have heard anywhere from one in six to one in ten.

I think most had always been cross dressers, or thought about it. Maybe they did a little when they where young, or had thoughts about it. Then they get caught up in the big rush to succeed in business, they fall in love, get married, have the kids, and suddenly they are middle age. 

Now, they are more at ease with themselves, life has slowed down a bit, the kids are gone to school and bunny will not be home for another 2 hours. Hhhmmm, I’d love to find out what that teddy I bought for bunny feels like, and maybe those black pantyhose! So they start cross dressing a bit. Continue reading this post…

 Hurry, hurry, only 2 minutes left to get this fantastic set of foam breast on ebay! Great for the little crossdresser in you, or ladies perk your chest up with these handy fellows. Winning bidder gets a set of false eyelashes free! With my combined shipping discount you can throw in that butt extender for next to nothing!

Yes, you know crossdressing is becoming more mainstream when you can find lots of ebay stores that carry crossdresser items. I have had a love/hate relationship with ebay. I had two different ebay stores at one time, selling thousands of dollars worth of stuff. But, ebay has so damn many little fees, it really pisses me off!

Both times I quit ebay because the fees started to cost more than the profits. Also you get all these newbies that think “hey, I’ll list this same stuff for lower than anyone, and everyone will buy from me!”. Let’s see how this works,,, Continue reading this post…

 First I want to say sorry for not making a post the other day. I had a very busy day, a girl’s work is never done! So today I am making this post earlier than I normally do. I’m also doing it early because I want someone to see this post if he checks it out tonight.

Yes this is for you, Frankie poo! Now let me fill everyone else in on what the hell I am talking about. We all have our favorite hair stylist. A good stylist is more than just a person who cuts your hair. They are your shrink, your friend, someone to share gossip with and find out what’s going on. A lot like a bartender.

They come to really know you and how you want your hair done. So, when you suddenly lose your regular stylist because they quit, or moved, or whatever reason it is quite a let down. I go to my local hair cuttery. No it’s not a fancy place, I’m getting my hair cut, not dining out! I don’t understand people who pay $60.00 or more for a simple haircut. Continue reading this post…