Hi everyone! After I post this I’m going out on my back porch to grill some chicken marinated in Jack Daniels BBQ sauce, mmm mmmm. Then I’ll cut up a salad and finally bake some bizkits just in time for the girls to come home. Do they have it good or what!

Anyway last week I started a 3 part post about those pesky “labels” we all get shoved into, and how no one agrees or understands just what they all mean. Last week it was “cross dressers”. This week I want to tackle “Transvestites”. Continue reading this post…

 Well, you made it through Monday, the worst is over! My day was not too bad, I sold a vinyl cutting machine I bought a year ago. Now I can keep making my little blog here without getting a second job.

Today I would like to start a 3 part discussion about,,,, breast! I’m sure we all love to talk about that. But specifically I am talking about the types of breast transgenders / crossdressers make, get and buy to make themselves look like they have some nice melons!

Since there are so many types and ways to enhance your cleavage I will break this up into 3 parts. Basically we have the “pack em with whatever ya got” route, the more advanced foam forms and strap on types, and finally the cream of the boobies, the lifelike silicone forms. Continue reading this post…

How is everyone doing this wonderful Sunday. It’s great to have the day off, yet sad to think tomorrow is,,, Monday,,,,ugh! So lets talk about something fun then. How about one of my favorite subjects, costumes.

 Oh come on now, admit it, cross dressers  just LOVE dressing up in all those hot sexy costumes, don’t we now! I know I do. In fact I do believe naughty costumes are my favorite things to dress up in, when I’m at home of course.

 Why do we cross dressers love those hot costumes soooo much? Well for one they are very sexy, most done up in lace, bows and frilly ribbons, heck who wouldn’t love that! Then we have the fact that most are a complete set, with the outfit, hat, stockings, garters and whatever else comes with it. Continue reading this post…

   How is everyone doing this Saturday night? Going out to the clubs, maybe a house party, perhaps both! Me, I decided to take it easy this weekend, I’m relaxing at home having a few drinks.

I touched up my banner picture thanks to a wonderful friend I know on an online board. I owe you one Jim! So anyway, tonight I thought I’d show another video from the very talented Grae Phillips. Phillips really knows her stuff, doesn’t she!

In this video she shows us how to hide and do eyebrows. Eyebrows can be very tricky to do. On the one hand you want them nice and thin, with a nice arch. On the other, most of us have to go to work and all that with manly brows!

So in this video she shows a neat trick to hide thick brows, or at least make them look better. I myself have thick brows. I do wax them and make them thiner, but I still need to hide parts of them. I will make a post about how I wax them sometime. So enjoy the video, and don’t overdo it tonight!!

 Hi everyone, it’s TGIF!!!!! I hope everyone has fun plans for the weekend. I’m not sure yet what I will do. One fun thing I did do yesterday was have a little photo shoot with the girls!

I had some new beard cover and foundation cream I wanted to try out, so it was the perfect time. Unfortunately however the cream was a bit too light, and the white cover base showed through. I looked a bit like a practice doll at a clown school, lol! Continue reading this post…

 Every Transgender remembers it. Some with pride, some with embarrassment, all with nervousness. Yes I’m talking about the first time you went out in public as a woman, Weeee!!!

Many of you still have not gone out in public cross dressed. Many of you never will, and many have no desire to do so. But for a lot of us that is a goal, that first time we feel we look good enough, have enough confidence in ourselves to dress up and go out as who we really want to be.

 When I think of my first time, I really think of two different times I went out. One was just going to a friends house for a small party. The other is when I went out to a club. The house party was the first time ever I went outside my house cross dressed. Continue reading this post…

Happy hump day everyone! (no you don’t have to take that literally). You can see the weekend from here, it’s faint, but it’s there! I did a lot today, I’m so proud of myself!

I want to let everyone know about something new I added to the board today. If you look at the left sidebar (your left, not mine!) you will see a new widget called “Transgender Quotes”. It displays random quotes related to us girls. Inside jokes, helpful tips on makeup, clothing and so on; sayings that only we girls can fully understand!

I started it off with 10 quotes of my own. I would like you all to share your favorite quotes, jokes, sayings and so on. Anyone who submits a quote will have their name on it so you get credit for it! You can use your full name or just your first or nick name.

To submit a quote, just go to my “about/contact Bilinda” page. Fill in the contact form, put “Transgender quotes” in the subject line. In the message box just type in the quote you would like to share. At the end put the name you want to use for the credit, it can be a full name, first name, nick name, anything!

I will let you know if I have accepted your quote. Please refrain from using profane language. The quotes rotate randomly, so yours can pop up anytime. (Your quote I mean!). I hope you will share your quote so we can have hundreds in there. Let me know what you think of this!

 Ok, I am sure most of you are tired of all the different transgender labels and names we are put under. But some still are not sure where they fit in, or just what all those names mean. So, I want to break it down and discuss the three main sub-labels most (not all) of us fall under that big umbrella one, transgender. This week lets talk about: cross dressers.

I think of all the names we get stuck under, cross dresser is the most common. It also contains the most diversified cross section of men. The very meaning of the word means to “cross dress”, that is to wear clothing of the opposite sex.  The reason for Cross dressing can be many different things, both sexual and non sexual. Continue reading this post…

I thought I would share a very good video today on how to apply makeup. If you check out the cross dresser videos on Utube I am sure you have already seen this. But for those that have not, this is a great video.

I especially like how it shows the correct way to put on lipstick. Males tend to have thin lips, so we need every trick in the book to make them full and lucious looking! Never use the lipstick tube, always use an applicator. I hope someday to make my own video! Have fun and hope you get some useful information from this.

I don’t know about you, but for some reason I have had a lot of lesbians in my life! I currently live with two, a couple that are my best friends. I’m not sure if being a transgender, crossdresser, transvestite or whatever you want to call me has anything to do with it.

I met Kelly, one of those two lesbians, way back when I was just 22. We worked together and had a lot in common. I was the first person she came out to. Of course I did not care what she was, so we became good friends. I become her big brother (or is it big sister) helping her out with her struggles to find herself. Continue reading this post…