Wow, is it late, I should start calling this the late night blog with Bilinda! Well at least I do post every day. I just made curry chicken for me and the girls. Ever made any of it? It’s good, but boy what a pain to make, I bet it took me over an hour.

 So, now that Christmas is coming up I was wondering what kind of toys transgenders like. No, I don’t mean the ones that belong in the bedroom, although I am sure most all of you love those! I mean grown up toys like boats, bikes and so on.

I suppose in that respect we transgenders are just like everyone else! When I was a young lil cross dresser in rural Vermont I had a lot of toys. The first auto I had was a 1969 willys jeep, the original type. I went everywhere with that, through snow, mud, streams, you name it. Continue reading this post…

 Hi everyone, it has been a beautiful day here in Florida. It should start getting a bit cool soon, well, cool down here means around the lower 70’s, hehe. I heard from my family in Vermont they already have snow, the poor things!

I was reading an article today about Transgenders in the political field. I will write a post about politics just to piss people off sometime! Anyway that got me thinking of just how many transgenders speak out, be it in the political, equal rights or law field.

We certainly have a lot of sites, organizations and other things helping to promote transgender awareness. But like any subject I sometimes wonder how much the “average” transgender gets involved. Continue reading this post…

Well I had a better day today then I did yesterday. If you read my last post I was having a pissy fit day! Nothing was going right. Oh well, today is better. Nothing stays the same, good or bad.

Three weeks ago I started a 3 part post on transgender labels. Today is the last, but not least, of the labels I will discuss, Transsexuals. Now then, like all the other labels we have a lot of gray area, with different people having different takes on all the labels. This is MY take, no more no less.

A person who is a Transsexual is basically a person born in the wrong body. Think about it, when you were growing up, no one had to tell you “hey Tommy, just so you know, your a boy, so your suppose to like girls, ok”. I know I never had to be told that. (I like guys too, but that’s another post!)

So that means in most cases boys are born with the gene, instinct, or whatever you want to call it, to like girls, and vise versa. Now then, sometimes, just like when someone is born with being left handed, or any number of other things, a boy or girl is born with the “wrong” instinct. Continue reading this post…

 Oh man, I am having one of THOSE days! Nothings worst than a cross dresser in a snit fit. I have been trying to get my picture gallery page going. I have readers and even some cross dressing “stars” waiting for me to get it done.

So I spent all day today uploading php scripts so I can have an upload form for everyone. See, I want you all to be able to just hit a button, browse your computer pictures and upload some you want to share. BUT, I admit I am not a real tech type of CD, so it has been a nightmare!

I finally sent a ticket into my host, and they had trouble also. But they told me how I might be able to make it work. So I will try again, TOMORROW. I am in no mood to tangle with it anymore today. So why do I have a picture of my dog and cat in this post? Well, they calm me down and make me realise how silly it is to get all worked up over stuff. Continue reading this post…

 I tell you, there is just NOT enough time in the day! I was going to get this post done this morning. Then I had e-mails, then had to get my coffee, then replies to web boards I participate in, and on and on, til now.

Oh well, Mondays are like that. Ok, last week I started a 3 part post about transgender breast. No not real ones (but that would be so cool to have, no more dating!) but the fake ones. My first post dealt with the most basic form of breast, the “stuff it with whatever ya got” method.

This second part deals with a bit better way of looking like you have nice boobies, the foam form and the chest pack, or strap on chest. I already explained in the first part about getting a nice, good fitted full bra. So if you missed that go and read it. Continue reading this post…

  Ahhh, Sunday, a time to take it easy. Unless you have two lesbians to pick up after, in which case you spend the day doing laundry and dishes! Oh well, I can’t complain about the free rent.

Anyway I saw a bunch of people going to church today while I was in dunkin doughnuts. I LOVE their coffee, they know me well there. Large, regular, 7 creams and 7 sugars. Yes I like it sweet, I don’t want to hear how that’s not really coffee, you get yours your way, I’ll get mine my way.

So I decided to write today’s post on Transgenders and Religion. Now then, I don’t like to talk about that as it’s such a flash point with everybody. So I’ll just be brief, and remember I’m just stating MY thoughts on it. Continue reading this post…

 Oh my, look at the time! I’ve just GOT to start writing my post in the morning or night before instead of late at night. But that’s me, I do my best work in the evening. Early to bed and early to rise makes Bilinda a grumpy bitch!

So anyway, I thought I’d write tonight about the relationship between lesbians and Transgenders, if there is any. If you have read any of my post you know I live with two lesbians, and they are my best friends. I have known one all my adult life, the other one about 3 years as she is Kelly’s girl.

Now then, the very definition of “transgender” seems to mean lesbians are TG also, same as gays. But for some reason everyone keeps gays and lesbians separate. Fine, we all know those labels are a bunch of bull anyway! So let me tell you what it’s like to live with lesbians,,,, Continue reading this post…

 Good evening everyone. Hope you had the day off like a lot of folks did today. I see all the Christmas lights and all are up around Orlando, it’s like Santa comes during Thanksgiving night and strings it all up! Even the radios are nothing but Christmas music, yyuuuhhh!!!

 Anyway now that we are in the season of pigging out, with candy, eggnog, fruitcake,,, well ok scratch that, it’s not editable food, that makes me think of my work out routine. I was born with good athletic genes; tall, strong arms, great legs and a damn nice ass!

When I was younger (not too long ago!) I worked out in a gym with weights. I would work out real hard for about a year, then get bored with it and stop. Then 6 months later I’d feel guilty about slacking off and work out again. I did that about 10 times right up until recently. Continue reading this post…

 Well Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I hope you all had a good time and did not get into any family fights. Sometimes I think it’s real good not to live close to family! I had a good day, when the girls got back from Ashley’s grandma’s they had pumpkin pie for me.

If you like football today is heaven for you dear! Me, well, I have to admit I never really cared for it. Most of the game is watching big guys smash into each other, the team gains about 10 yards, then repeat, 90 times! I must say though I would have been a great receiver, I was so fast no one ever touched me at flag football in school. 

So now that Thanksgiving is over it’s time for,,,,, shopping! This weekend is the busiest weekend of the whole year for retailers. I look forward to it myself, seeing as I have my own online lingerie store. (oh let me plug my store just once here, ok!). Continue reading this post…

 Well turkey day is here, for most that means a day off work, maybe even Friday too for a long weekend! Me, I still work on the PC every day, no break for poor me.

My roomies are going to Ashley’s grandmother’s house for the Holiday. I don’t know anyone in her family, so I will just stay home. All my family is up in Vermont where I am from. That got me thinking about what other TG’ers do for the Holiday. Continue reading this post…

 Hi everyone! After I post this I’m going out on my back porch to grill some chicken marinated in Jack Daniels BBQ sauce, mmm mmmm. Then I’ll cut up a salad and finally bake some bizkits just in time for the girls to come home. Do they have it good or what!

Anyway last week I started a 3 part post about those pesky “labels” we all get shoved into, and how no one agrees or understands just what they all mean. Last week it was “cross dressers”. This week I want to tackle “Transvestites”. Continue reading this post…

 Well, you made it through Monday, the worst is over! My day was not too bad, I sold a vinyl cutting machine I bought a year ago. Now I can keep making my little blog here without getting a second job.

Today I would like to start a 3 part discussion about,,,, breast! I’m sure we all love to talk about that. But specifically I am talking about the types of breast transgenders / crossdressers make, get and buy to make themselves look like they have some nice melons!

Since there are so many types and ways to enhance your cleavage I will break this up into 3 parts. Basically we have the “pack em with whatever ya got” route, the more advanced foam forms and strap on types, and finally the cream of the boobies, the lifelike silicone forms. Continue reading this post…